Writing Books!

I've had two great opportunities to write a book in my life. The first was when I lived on a Historically Black University (HBCU) campus during the OJ trial. I was coaching football there and observed not only the trial with all its hoopla, but also the Republican Revolution of 1995. Remember Newt? Thanks Mark Fuhrman! The resulting discussions left me with one question; why do I have to explain the phrase "rugged individualism" to an educated black male? It was a very educational part of my journey.

The second opportunity was dating on the internet at the age of 50! This occurred after my first marriage folded after 21 years. If you see humor in the bizarre and potentially bizarre, let me recommend that experience highly. It should be noted that I met my current (2nd) wife the old fashioned way.

I did come away with an idea of why internet dating sites prosper; it's hope! Every click might be the next "ONE". People live, vote, worship and even relocate based on hope. It might be the one condition that connects all of us.

The kids I hang out with- Part 2

I carried over my preferences from the golf course to this year's summer meeting. We had enough down time at night to keep things interesting and once again I chose to hang with the pups! Many thanks to the young lions that are already making things happen in our company.

I think I may be addicted to youth. So far it is healthy addiction; free of transplants, dyes and gross additions of bling. My guilty pleasure? Evidently it is giving "sage" advice to those that are not yet in the habit of listening. I appreciate them putting up with me anyway. They even bought a few rounds!

Favorite Sayings Installment 1

"Don't confuse activity for achievement"- Gene Stallings

Step outside the sweat, frustration, stress and time consumption of your daily or daunting tasks and ask yourself; Am I getting anything done?

The "kids" I hang out with...

Golf is a big deal for me. It is now my favorite mode of competition; which means a lot when you consider where I have been in my life professionally. Who you play with regularly says a lot about you.

I much prefer to play with guys (& girls) that are younger than me. They sweat less, complain less, hurt less and occasionally can get a date with the 20 year old cutie serving drinks after the round. Thanks Chuck! I don't even remember how I played. Youngsters give old guys perspective.

Opening Post

If you read my profile, you know one thing already; I take family very seriously. The best thing about being 55 with adult children is when they "leave the nest" and actually show signs of being very successful; it is a GREAT feeling. Happy Father's Day to me! Thanks kids! Try not to screw it up!